We all know that Divorce destroys the family

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I am sure many of us had a shock when we heard the first time that someone was filing for divorce, but most of us fail to understand the real reasons for the divorce..

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Those whom I love I also do chasten and rebuke. For  if a wife does evil and not rather good do expect her to reap her consequences..  husbands too.

 

1 Cor  7:25    Now concerning virgins I have no commandment of the Lord: yet I give my judgment, as one that hath obtained mercy of the Lord to be faithful.26 I suppose therefore that this is good for the present distress, I say, that it is good for a man so to be.27 Art thou bound unto a wife? seek not to be loosed. Art thou loosed from a wife? seek not a wife.28 But and if thou marry, thou hast not sinned; and if a virgin marry, she hath not sinned. Nevertheless such shall have trouble in the flesh: but I spare you.29 But this I say, brethren, the time is short: it remaineth, that both they that have wives be as though they had none;30 And they that weep, as though they wept not; and they that rejoice, as though they rejoiced not; and they that buy, as though they possessed not;31 And they that use this world, as not abusing it: for the fashion of this world passeth away.32 But I would have you without carefulness. He that is unmarried careth for the things that belong to the Lord, how he may please the Lord:33 But he that is married careth for the things that are of the world, how he may please his wife.34 There is difference also between a wife and a virgin. The unmarried woman careth for the things of the Lord, that she may be holy both in body and in spirit: but she that is married careth for the things of the world, how she may please her husband.35 And this I speak for your own profit; not that I may cast a snare upon you, but for that which is comely, and that ye may attend upon the Lord without distraction.  

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IT  ALSO  STILL IS MAINLY THE SELF CENTERED GOD IGNORANT PERSONS WHO SAY THE FAMILY IS THE MOST IMPORTANT THING IN THEIR WORLD.. NOT IN MINE as JESUS CHRIST ALWAYS COMES FIRST.

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YOU ARE ALWAYS TO PUT GOD FIRST EVEN ABOVE YOUR FAMILY.. GOD EVEN TESTED ABRAHAM IN THIS AND ASKED HIM TO SACRIFICE HIS SON.   

http://kambulow.blogspot.ca/2013/06/god-always-comes-first.html

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How many of you do now know that Politicians, not just many people, can be really stupid, they can offer stupid advice in reality.. such as go on with your life..

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Well the so called cold, indifferent experts now say have an easy  divorce and just move on.. but the too often grim reality in the news  is not so.. for when one spouse unexpectedly files for divorce the other one often can get violent, as well as the spouse who does not like the future as she sees it.. and next the damage done before anyone can deal with it .. a more  easy divorce will not help here.

https://thenonconformer.wordpress.com/2009/12/19/a-real-stupid-move-a-liberalized-divorce-solution-still-it-only-seems-like-a-cheap-solution/

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LETS NOT PRETEND TO BE DUMB AND DENY THAT MANY OF THE DIVORCING SPOUSES EVEN PROFESSING CHRISTIAN ONES AND THEIR LAWYERS, SUPPORTERS THEY DO FIRSTLY LIE EVEN IN WRITING  TO THE COURTS TOO.. THEY DO COMMIT PERJURY TO THE COURTS IN DIVORCE DISPUTES, AND TOO OFTEN WASTE THE COURT’S TIME  AND TAX PAYER’S MONEY CAUSE BASICALY THEY ARE ALL STILL  PROSTITUTES, THEY PROVIDE THEIR SERVICES   FOR THE MONEY. 

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Most marriages tend to end up in divorce because of one spouses inability to forgive, laziness, unrealistic expectations, uncontrolled sexual lust amongst many other things.

https://thenonconformer.wordpress.com/2009/01/02/divorce-and-remarriage-in-the-christian-church/

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Really is being someone’s wife and someone’s mother  really worth the  full investment of a life? Does it take preparation of skills,  concentration of energies, and the commitment of both to keep a happy home? Can  she even have a significant input , contribution into her husband and her  children now too? and here too one will reap what one  has sown here as well..  

http://kambulow.blogspot.ca/2013/06/really-is-being-someones-wife-and.html

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ONE OF MY OWN FAVORITE EXPRESSION IS THAT “THERE IS  NO SUCH THING AS BEING A LITTLE BIT PREGNANT”.

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NOW THIS APPLIES TO ALL CULTS,  WEIRDO’S ,  EXTREMISTS  INCLUDED.  WHEN THEY TEND TO GO  OVERBOARD, THEY TEND TO GO REALLY OVERBOARD, EVEN OF THE   FALSE PENTECOSTAL OR  EVANGELICAL GROUPS NOW TOO, FOR WHEN THEY ARE WRONG IN ONE ERROR   THEY TEND TO  HAVE MANY OTHER MAJOR BIBLICAL DOCTRINAL ERRORS.  AND WHY IS THAT  NOW?

http://kambulow.blogspot.ca/2013/06/the-possession.html

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